Would you want to become a Christian if you were told that your role in church would be limited, solely because of your gender?
That because of your gender, you would never be allowed to teach or to lead in any strategic way.
That because of your gender, you would be expected to wait for others to initiate?
I think that many people view the church as archaic/medieval because of its traditional views of a woman’s role. Paul said he became all things to all people that by all means he might save some. (See 1 Corinthians 9:19-23) I think he would be appalled that something he wrote might be a barrier to people becoming followers of Jesus.